Where do I begin??

I guess I will start off saying I have the in laws from hell. Honestly! I really made a huge mistake being nice to these people, and contacting them about 2.5 almost 3 years ago. During these years we have never had a good relationship with Brads parents. It has always been rocky, and uncomfortable. Maybe because the relationship was forced. Brad has never wanted anything to do with his parents, or any of that family. Now, it is very understandable as to why he felt this way. I have learned a valuable lesson here lol. That being - when it comes to your spouses family, if your spouse states his family is a bunch of horrible low life people, he means it! Listen to your spouse! I learned the hard way. All because I wanted to see the good in people, and be nice. Now I am paying for it by being bombarded with nasty emails about how we are "white trash", and how my husband is a "loser". Also states how I "talk smack" to my kids about Brads parents. I personally have never heard anyone say something like that (using the word "smack"). I always was under the impression "smack" is what you do to someone who talks badly about you lol. At least that is what they deserve, a good smack in the mouth! I just know I am the better person here. If I were to post everything these people have written, anyone reading this would be able to understand what my husband and I are going through. It's just crazy, and I want my family to be left alone. Especially now that I know, after everything I have done for those people, they have been "trash talking" about me behind my back. It's really sad. It's sad that these people are like this. It really makes me sick that they are involving other people, and making us into these horrible people (which we are not), and receiving a pity party like they deserve one. We are the victim in all of this, not them. GRRR this has me sick. Why do people have to behave like this?